Ladies, it breaks my heart to hear how many guys have done this to us. We spoke and it was like nothing had changed, I stayed over a couple of nights and for another four months we remained in touch still until he just decided to not contact me at all. Your honesty could save us a lot of time and energy so it would be great if you could just tell me whats going on. Thanks The secret is to get yourself into what I call a love abundance mindset. I took a long hard look at him and saw him for what he really was and realized I wanted to let him go, that his attitude toward me was undesirable, and that I really couldnt even like him anymore. And the worst thing is you know he is ok and not losing any sleep at night but your just fighting to make it through another day. I wish you good luck and all the best! In the text, let him know your standards and that you aren't willing to let go of them simply because you like him. And then wed be pissed, instead of confused. It was a painful ordeal nonetheless it was quite a learning experience. Funny how dissapearance happens very often during the xmas time.I had similar situation.Did not hear a word from him for a week and then he responded to me that he wanted a peaceful xmas without a phone.But I was worried that something might have happenend to a person. So I replied telling him to hit the road! I sent a response to say sorry to hear that and i hope it get better. It took him two months for the first time, I have no idea how long it would take now. Initially I felt he cant just forget how supportive I have been over a petty thing and accept his mistake, apologise (in fact I tried to mend things although it was his fault) I thought our bond was stronger than that. Things were flowing nicely until he chose to vanish from the picture. He broke it off after some conflict with others at club. Give him another chance if he seems sorry. Your story is really inspiring to me, I had to screenshot it for future reference. Sorry for such a long post! I finally had to block him when he called me twice between 5 am and 6 am. No explanation. It will make him worry about what could cause your plans to be interrupted. She will not feel the need to pursue because hell be doing all the pursuing. I love writing relatable, insightful articles that help people understand relationship dynamics and how to get the love they want. Yes, he spends the same amount of time with me as he always has. He will text you back to say thank you and send you a compliment in return. What do I do? Our convos were dry. We have been through some major emotional situations with each other. A day before valentines day we were texting and laughing at each other and he was supposed to pick me up that day after work but didnt answer my call so I thought he fell asleep. Then told him It is not a good idea to see each other and thats all. We would then meet up when we could, he called me his girlfriend, we had amazing sex, he went FB public after I said I didnt like the fact he hadnt changed his relationship status from single. I leave in the morning for brunch, and dont hear from him the whole day. Hell realize that he lost a girl who actually wanted to be his, one who would have fought for him and defended him in front of everyone. Right, its really hard to screw it up with him. I offered to come back after and he agreed to allow me to come back . I was overwhelmed with feelings of being taken for granted and she was changing the terms of our serious relationship into texting buddies, not what I wanted to settle for. No way! He also wanted to know any guy that tried to contact me. Thing is he gave me his hard drive to put movies on and I still have it. Ive never had a guy disappear without a trace forever. I have deleted his number, deleted the messages and whats apps as i dont want to be stupid and text him at a moment of weakness. Because I am not into chasing people. If he disappears, its because he isnt the right guy for you. Well thanks for sharing your story. He has blocked my calls, so I dont even try anymore. As I have mentioned before, after he sent the email asking for a break, I waited ovr week to reply. I wouldnt deal with him again if I were you. Its up to YOU to protect YOU, though. White middle class males have been hammered upon ever since people like Gloria Steinem came onto the scene and pretty much emasculated all males. I will admit I have been sucked into this BS a few times, but now I know the red flags. 9. My lifes a mess too LOL But we just get to a point where enough is enough, And believe me its took me too long to get to that point. You know, I get the point, he has no time for me, but hes friends with my grandma, and calls her every night. I need to get this guy to ask me out now and see if there is anything between us otherwise this needs to stop. So I was unsure of which of my broken-hearted hate filled texts he was getting. We still had a good evening we had takeaway watched a movie and even became intimate . I met a guy on line he asked for my number and frim there we talked and texted regularly for 5/6 months. Always come back. i was EXTREMELY into this girl but the first date glow went up in smoke on the second date. I dont understand what happened. This is your time to make the right decision. I asked him severally if he didnt want to be me. 3. So maybe its better if you keep your unhelpful, condescending remarks to yourself because obviously YOU have a lot to work on if you need to go on an internet forum and diminish others to build yourself up. We never saw eachother yet and we made plans to see eachother on a Saturday. 1. I will be with my friends this weekend. I was going to leave it at that but I decided to be mature and call him a week later to cut it off. He lives in the same srea as me but when we met in line he was on a business cintract out of state. But it just dont feel the same We talked everyday, he promised to make it work. I know he is busy, but too busy to call me for 5 minutes. Sometimes it means he is multi dating. Hopefully you and I will come out of this not too damaged. It leaves the one being left confused with no closure. The mystery behind his reasons for his disappearance is what keeps your mind tired. Look its 2013. I need help!!!! I was just hoping for a short response, even if he says that he loses interest in me itll hurt but atleast I dont have to wait for him anymore. I am perplexed, I was not spoiling his marriage, we genuinely connected on a mental and emotional level why would he just run away like this??? Ok, I told him I get it and gave him nothing but space, leaving him alone. Texting such a man would boost his ego and will likely show repetitive behavior whenever he needs self-validation. Anyway first guy told me he loved me, then jetted. And it feels so much better. As you can see Im not over him and maybe if I would of ended contact in the beginning things would be different but I very much would like to have a second chance of being with him. Goodness. Even though a part of you knows that he doesnt deserve you reaching out to him, the other part still desperately wants to do it. Never a lull in the conversation and we just clicked. He doest call me anymore, he left me, and disappear my boyfriend did not say Its this mad dash into the future, they dont even know me. Why did you give up before we got to that part when that was the point (atleaat thats what I was hoping lol) in the first place, why did you even waste time talking to me if you were just going to give up? Good advice! I felt scolded. Maria. That was a simple innocent suggestion and I was so shocked when he replied, we should call things a day and move on!. Him (10 minutes of silence while he is online): lol What? he was in California, I was in NY. And you were going to twist and attack the words of anyone that tried to help you. He texts later to say he forgot I was calling and was at the gym and I need to stop overthinking things and relax. Feel free to ask me questions if you want. He has been on FB every single day though. Nothing bad happened. He told you point blank hes not into it and only wants to be your friend. Yes MH, we dont mind a real MAN saying: I dont think we should see each other because_____________ hell, I would respect a man doing that! big halloween party at my friends place after dinner holding conversation becoming a little more difficult. So i stopped thinking of him and concentrated on sorting out my mortgage and looking for a flat. We were in touch a bit after that but it was me initiating and I invited me to hang, he said he was out of town, then I reached out again one more time and he, for the first time ever, did not respond to me at all. For the first time in 4 mos he didnt reply back quickly and it was because his mom was sick. He invites me after work to see him at his place for a bit. And I will never have this idea that Men who fall for me are mostly wrong men because Im not interested in them, but I will now have the idea that I would like to be with a man who thinks its his great luck to have a girl like me. I know you dont like this but its the way it has to beafter the spring and I get most of my work done things will be different. He said hed text me when he got home. I just think you cant expect too much from people, especially those you have just met, hooked up with a few weeks ago or have known even for a few months. My guy has been incognito for a little over two weeks now. Hes 30, pursuing is MBA. I do agree if they are your partner they should have the time and interest or move on but then you wouldnt be calling someone like that your partner.. Just like that. As a consequence, here we are another ghosting act. In modern times, women dont need men for anything more occasional sex and to pick up the check when you want to go out to dinner. Then poof, no more coming to find me or sitting with me at break time. Have some compassion for someone who is heartbroken and hurting and reaching out for support. I have no idea why he stopped contacting me. 1. He drove me home and I was a bit confused. The fact we used to talk all the time has made this cutting off so hard. Freaking life affirming! I do miss him and he has done a lot for me through the last 4 years. Whether thats the issue in your case or hes just plain playing games, I dont know. So consider that before or if you respond. Well, its impossible to know why. ), This exact same thing just happened to me to! If a guy wants to be with you, he will show you he wants to be with you. But the mystery to me is why he cant handle being in a committed relationship. We continued to text each other from morning till night every day! Went on 3 dates with a guywe got on really well, I could tell he likes me (hes been checking me out for a long time) so the last date he spent hours just kissing my hands and face, holding me and telling me how much he likes me; poof! however, he sometimes come back again wondering why I didnt contact him. I cant wrap my head around it. unaware (or perhaps aware) of the agony I went through the whole weekend..I acted normal of course and was my usual pleasant self pretending that everything was cool. But Im not letting it distract my silence on him. Few weeks ago I would have cared cos I really liked him (even though I kept telling myself not to). unfortunately i do know that he is alive so it was not because he dropped dead that he disappeared. Relationships make us strong as we get most heartbroken in relationships. If Im not worth a reply text, youre not worth my time. Dont beat yourself up over it, let him go. Going down this path because something is better than nothing can actually make your heartbreak so much more intense, so bad that it causes some women depression. But there is more you need to know. He told me week 1 how he was falling for me. I honestly believe that after being with a guy for several months you should at least be able to ask them if theyre on the same page with regards to the future. I did so because I needed to let him know that his behavior by ignoring is unacceptable. On monday of the next week he texted me saying he wanted to see me which I answered that I did so. I finally cam to the rationalization of he he should have never let me have this space to myself to give me a chance to move and find someone who treats me better. I dont understand why they would leave it open like this. Most of the guys either wanted someone to have sexy talk with or, the ones that seemed genuine told you they loved you within a few weeks, and we know that is not possible!. Thought we were good! then she starts blowing up his phone, demanding answers, or when he finally reaches out shes snappy and cold instead of calm, cool and confident. We talk again on the phone for another hour the next night and I am on cloud nine. You?. I am actually flabbergasted at how they can act like everything is so normal when both of us know that he is screwing up badWe chatted for a while and I let the conversation trail off and did not pursue it anymore and he went back to his quiet, disappearing self..No word since then, and I pride myself on not giving in to the urge to check on him however casuallySo this is it, I will probably never hear from him, but I think Over the weekend I will be so busy with other stuff that I will be able to get my mind off himKeep yourself busyBuy yourself something pretty, get a new haircut..or indulge in some delicious gourmet icecreamAnything which will stop you from doing something stupid like reaching out to himI keep telling myself and you should doif/when they are interested they will contact usand if they dont they are not worth the importance and energy that we waste on them..Be strong, you deserve so much better :)). Why did you talk to him for 2 yrs without meeting him? I agree with Marions advice and also have something else to offer. I cant think its as simple as hes just not that into you That fits the barely dating folks, not deep abiding declarative love relationships that the man started and grew with the woman So whats the answer for those of us in THAT situation??? For men its generally pretty simple- your attraction at first is coupled with curiosity- if the attraction holds you will continue to explore your curiosity about her. Should I text him? He just left like that? A day later i found him on tinder and realized he had swiped right on me too, and we both laughed about it and decided to meet up. I called him like 3 or 4 times everyday for about 5 days, he didnt answer. I cant imagine if I were you. The truth is that passive aggressors wanted to be wantedthey love the attention their childish behaviour gets them. Then poof they vanish into thin air.These are men in their late forties and fifties so it never changes. He agrees very nonchalant. I dont want to waste my time. The truth, as I would have told it, would have caused her extreme emotional distress. Many are usually high on the narcissistic spectrum. you deserve someone better. I was crushed. Hit it off, had a great time, immediately he asked for another date. Hell get the hint and snap eventually, and youll get em back, especially if you stick to DVDs as your topic lol. Looks like I am headed in the same direction as your cousin..Damn, This guy finally contacted me first on Monday, then on Friday after the final text I sent him, I did not contact him at all last week, I was checking to see if he would initiate contact without me texting himI guess he needed some sort of ego stroke and was worried that he would lose me as an option. Weeks of never ending texting if we were not able to see each other. Ive hooked up with what I thought was a sweet, considerate young man by getting to know him though texting. Because it is SPOT on. No hard feelings. He did spend the week with his brother, and he does work A LOT, so Im not sure how much of it is him being really busy or if he lost interest. On December he invited me to a party and then he asked me out, as much as i was scared to start a relationship knowing he would go away soon i still said yes. He must know that you can clearly tell whats going on and you wont tolerate his behavior. I play on a chess forum, and there is this really expert player, I befriended him and asked for lessons. Well, I figured I would step up and invite him to dinner last week, which he cheerfully accepted. Me later. This only goes to show that this guy never deserved you in the first place. All I can say is dont give your heart any more than you already have. As of now, im not texting him again until he wants to text me first so i can at least tell if he still wants to talk with me. I sensed nothing was wrong. We spent the whole week together; movies, dinner, shopping, museums, gymwe even had classes together and he would always take me home after that. I am very independent. ? You dont really think that as your relationship progresses, hell one day decide to vanish from your life completely and then come back when it suits him. A guy first shows you how amazing it will feel to live life with him. If he cant give you what you want then maybe its best if he walks away and never comes back. He doesnt deserve you in the first place and you shouldnt even consider waiting for him. No, he never spends time with me. I had sent him one more after that and he didnt answer for days. I have seen my guy friends do this as well. I left him a good voicemail, I was angry hurt and upset, actually in tears, as it was my birthday, my best friend died of a heart attack 2 months before, I cant find work and I have no family hereSo he did not call back. I have not read anything until now that describes what you wrote, in such a simple, easy-to-understand format. Bit of backgroundtwo almost 30 y.os, him 4 months out of a 7 year relationship/engagement. As Ann above said, watch his actions and dont go by his wordsI need to follow that advice too. With online dating, I advocate meeting someone pretty soon somewhere in public after the initial contact. We did fall in love and it was great, we spoke on the phone, emailed, chatted on video, and even met after a year. So last time i heard from him was a non response to my messages. Especially when everything is going great. You met him after only texting, which is lazy communication. I am pretty sure he had been acting flakey because he wanted it to end. Ghosting in your 20s is childish but understandable. Buh-bye, boy! Its not fair. Maybe you ladies date men who dont have much of a life. I called and texted and he never responded. Actively cheating (yes, girlfriends count). Dude, stop chasing this guy. Im sad because I truly just miss talking to him. He had sex with her and had great dates several times, but then she showed her craving to be in a relationship which he didnt want at all. Its our nature to want to bond. But please do not reach out to him again. When something begins I feel like I give and give and give. Its been three weeks now that I have heard nothing. My feelings are hurt but I will not make a Priority, anyone who has made me just an Option. Please dont scream and shout He honestly did everything for me and now he didnt even care to say happy birthday to me. But the key here, is to remain strong and not contact him. You must be aware of what you deserve and whats way beneath you. I texted him asking if we were still meeting and never got a response. In the future when you are out with a man, please be mindful of how much you are drinking. I didnt know that message because it happened that I deleted my account on whatsapp so when we got the chance to text each other thru bbm, thats the only time i read that message after 8 days. Fortunately for him he looks like he has already found someone else in 3 weeks!!! Its fine. But a week b4 we had a really bonding text back n forth. One of them talked to me for hours and then disappeared only to contact me back like 2 months later by asking me if I wanted to go out to dinner and a movie. Do not reach out to him again. Last year on New Years Eve I by chance went to a club and instantly hit it off with a guy, he evened so loved and charming. I also started having feeling that he is losing interest and may be somewhere I felt stuck as I cant see anyone else and I am not sure if he is that interested. Could someone please help explain to me what could possibly be going on??! Men owe women nothing. Be strong and not confused. However, its horrible to just cut off communication with no warning. I have come across such a generous, good man once in my life and he is the only ex i have stayed friends with. He agreed and realised he just wanted to take it slow and take each day as it comes. I miss him and what we had together but Im trying to give him his space right now. We always got along. stupid me :(. Is he sizing her up or tethering her? Yet he keeps telling me i miss you, I like you more than anyone and i do hope to see you again. I dont know If I should text him to meet and talk or just wait for him to initiate contact. if a man I date did not contact me in 2 or 3 weeks, I never initiate contact. Either his wife, ex-wife found out again he was on POF and got him to delete his account OR he met someone new and hates the dating site too so went off or its temporarily deleted. Or just go out with him if he asks you? Its like the last 15 months have been wiped away. I like to feel Im a rational human being, but even Ive creeped on profiles of people I thought my object of affection was interested inthat makes me a psycho? I was confident Id see him again. I can relate to most of you. Its amazing and therapeutic to know that I am not alone in this experience. Its the title of this website. In a week i was over him. That says it all. Today I feel again like the day he asked for a break, all the hurt, anger, confusion, and tears have returned. I wouldnt say we were boyfriend or girlfriend but he told his mother about me and his best friend and told his stepdad that he was happy. Anyways he have me his number and we talked for the next day or two. So quickly. I know he had a problem when someone would try and contact me of the opposite sex. When a guy disappears for days, maybe he involved with something and can't tell you right away or he just busy with all of his stuff. He did a lot of future talk and would tell me he really liked me.He tried to see me as frequently as possible and we would text practically every day with a few phone calls in between. Like he did too and I could see myself with him. Don't kid yourself or make excuses for the guy. If a guy vanished on you, this says everything about him, not you. Very immature, I know!! They live in the same town. Because its an uncomfortable conversation to have and he doesnt want to have it. I last spoke to him Thursday evening where he told me to have a Good night. And whats more- when you are willing to settle for less attention or investment than you want, everyone can smell it on you and you become less attractive. He was a little more quieter but not by much. As he walked me to the parking station he kissed me passionately again. I was fine with thatI wasnt expecting us to be able to hang out all the time like we did in the fall and winter time. Do they really come back? Should I move on or write to him? And he still ghosted. This isnt something that someone just made up, its kind of the truth. He was sad but understood I wanted more, and he wasnt ready. Anything . that sounds like something that recently happened to me and I am at lost for words. I would not answer him at all when he tries to come back with his tail between his legs. We worked in different departments but couldnt seem to stay away from each other, we would use our lunch breaks to meet up to talk and just embrace each other. BUT it still is a really sucky feeling. Well we finally connected again and he basically said he us into me, but doesnt want a relationship right now because he has a lot of other thIngs going on with hobbies and work, etc. Im just really angry he doesnt have the balls to talk to me and clarify things! More than he deserved thats for sure, but Im a kind hearted person and try not to judge others because I dont know the whole story of what made them the way they are. Lol. If he is busy Im fine, but he doesnt. He sstopped replying me and disappeared.. Underwear was kept on. We talk, kiss, he seems really into me. Two months later on Christmas Eve he contacts me via text and every other day we texted back and forth. She may take that as a lesson moving forward in her interactions with people; to actually listen. For whatever reason, he let you expire. If he blew you off and you havent heard from him, consider it done. fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.. Hes Just Not That Into Me! Did you get to see the last episode of GOT? In early dating, Ive had guys ghost before. OMG I have almost the same story. He seemed so head over heels for me and I dont know what happened. I just did a final text saying that I am relieved he is ok as i can see he read texts. Its way too obvious that hes ghosting you on purpose and you want to get answers. Everyone says we belonged together that he needed me I was his anchor and that he loves me so much. We decided that I would go back to France for almost a month to visit him over my school break. I dont know what to think, unless going back to his family has made him realise there is no future for us [I am of a different culture and religion] and I guess eventually he wants to move back there. RED FLAG, so I confronted him through email as I could not see him, I said that I know he has alot going on but I really was starting to feel like a convenience and explained why. Enjoy the dating scene. And then just one day we were exchanging messages and at one point (and the whole conversation was quite flirty) he just stopped. 10. Even if it hurts. Keep your head up & I wish you the best. One night he called me and revealed somethings to me that really made me think twice about everything. I too want closure, what does it matter if we seek it, if a guy doesnt want to see us anymore, I dont think it really matters what he thinks of us. I could have faded and ignored her, but she said she also had trouble keeping friends and I thought reaching out with honesty might help her out in the long run. It is as simple as that. As painful as that realization is, it may give you closure to realize his behavior is not your fault and not because of something you did. When we were together in the room there was plenty of kissing. Haha. Of course, it would be best for both of you if he simply told you about his fear. So boring and dry compared to how it used to be. Im about communication and honesty. Absolutely call the person on it. I feel as if I got no real explanation as if it were just the easy way out and he threw us out like trash after claiming how much I meant for the last 8 months. I dated this guy a few times and I thought we had hit it off then he just disappears. No was his answer. I just think that women tend to be too quick to say that a man doesnt care over something as silly as not calling them every 5 seconds. He did tell me once that it hurt him a little that I didnt text him for two days after one of our dinner dates. Actions have consequences. Needy? If he says one thing but does another, then its time to start doing a slow fade out of your own. Hed tell me how he cant believe that this is happening, he would tell me its unreal, he would tell me how beautiful i am, he even told me how much I remind him of his mother. He called me a couple of days after I posted this haha (kinda drunk) and told me he really missed me and loved me but I was just like Im sleeping, we talk later (obviously It didnt happen). I deleted him because I didnt even want to see his name pop up in my newsfeed lol. We got along really well and had a great day together. 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